Baby’s first Halloween? Read this

It’s easy to get caught up in the traditions and expectations of the Halloween season no matter your age, but it’s important to have realistic expectations, especially if you are a parent of young children.

“If you have a baby, toddler or young child, there are things to consider when planning and preparing for Halloween,” says Dr. Reyna Trevino, a pediatrician with Advocate Children’s Hospital. “Many babies and young children find Halloween decorations or sounds scary whether it’s at the store, around the neighborhood or even in your own home. Never force your child to get closer to something that scares them or joke about their fears. Assure your child that decorations and costumes are pretend but still be sure to validate their feelings. You could damage a child’s trust in you by not helping them feel safe.”

A great way to teach children about holidays is by using age-appropriate activities, including festive books or songs, decorating pumpkins or doing crafts. Preschool-age children and older will enjoy selecting and/or making their own Halloween costume and decorating the house. Creating a countdown calendar and baking spooky treats are other options for getting into the season.

“Something to remember when making Halloween plans or preparing for any holiday is that young children thrive on routine,” Dr. Trevino says. “Skipping naps or pushing bedtime later to participate in activities can often lead to an overtired child and meltdowns. If possible, trick or treat before dark. Otherwise, there are many opportunities throughout the month to participate in Halloween activities at a time that fits into your child’s normal routine, including trunk or treats.”

Dr. Trevino says that even if your child is well rested, they may still become overwhelmed by Halloween activities and gatherings. That’s why it’s important to set realistic expectations.

“Kids can be unpredictable. Even if they were originally excited to put on the costume they selected and go door to door, they may change their mind,” she says. “The important thing to remember is to have fun, not force fun. Instead of envisioning how the day will go, just focus on being together and having a great time however you choose.”

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